...go to a school play

Today was the 3rd and final performance of my daughter's Christmas play 'Babushka'. Kids ranging in age from 5 to 9 did themselves, and the school, proud as they sang and acted their hearts out, missed cues, dropped the baby Jesus on his head and managed wardrobe malfunctions. I know it's the same at primary schools up and down the UK but there's just something a bit special about your school's play.

In all honesty, like many parents, I was less than impressed that we had to block out time for 3 performances; it's a busy time juggling work, school activities, Christmas present buying and wrapping as well as the seemingly, never-ending culinary demands. However all frustration disappeared as my 6 year old took to the stage to perform a Russian dance with 9 of her classmates. Resplendent in Russian dress, the beaming smile on her face said it all. This is it. Life is good. And if it's not good when you're 6 then there's really not much to be optimistic about.

The year 2 who played the lead role was hilarious with a good sense of the comedy of her character and the younger pupils made adorable angels, farmyard animals and insects (if you don't know the story:  Babushka meets the 3 wise men on her way to 'rescue' the new born baby King from a dirty stable; well in the main). The daughter of a friend of ours sang a solo and another child picked his nose for most of the performance. It was, as it should be, a play of contrasts and the perfect start to the Christmas celebrations, reminding me that some things are more important than others.

With our star of the show now tucked up in bed it's time to catch up on work but the memory of a joyful 6 year old looking for me in the audience and watching my reaction as she sang and danced her way through the show is well worth the late night.

... think about actioning my to do list

My to do list would make David Allen cringe. This is odd because as someone with mild OCD I'm a big fan of the concept behind the GTD (Getting Things Done) methodology: removing tasks and actions from the mind by keeping a record of them either on paper or electronically.

I have all the GTD tools: the filing system (daily, yearly, A-Z), colour coded post-it notes and cards for recording actions against life areas (home, work, kids) and of course the book. And for the last year I've also followed David Allen on Twitter reading some of his links with great interest.

'Yes' I think, 'I'll start doing that.' But what is it that stops me from actually getting on with it, from getting things done?

Basically, I take the Why Don't You approach and 'go out and do something less boring instead.' Why sort out my filing when I could join my 6 year old on the zipwire in our garden? And do I really want to categorise all the things I need to do on different coloured cards, stored in different folders? Well yes I'm the sort of person who'd love it, but I'd much rather be cooking and listening to The Boss or Radio 2. It's not that I'm totally dismissing the GTD system merely assigning it to a yellow postcard for action another day.

I get that if I actually organised myself in a GTD way, I might have more time to read, go to the cinema, sit around with girlfriends or maybe take on another client. But the problem is, I manage to fit these things in around my slightly chaotic approach to life and every now and then I get to treat myself to a day of sorting, shredding and filing.

As we have 30 people joining us for a party on Saturday I feel it would be wise to do an office clear out before then, if only I didn't have the tree to decorate, Christmas school plays to attend and a family gathering in the Midlands for the annual Christmas present exchange. That said, I've got a few spare minutes...maybe I'll check out these lovely filing products first...JIC (just in case).